There are 5 basic rules for attracting guys. It isn’t rocket science or difficult to do…
Attracting a guy for a short fling is much easier than attracting a man for a long term commitment.
They usually aren’t looking for anything definite or immediate.
Most guys want a ‘good time’ rather than a ‘long time’. Although he may be open to a long term commitment, he will probably start running scared if you start on the marriage talk.
Five Ways To Attract Men
1. Stay in the Present
Worry about today, and not how the romance will turn out. Take time to have fun.
2. Don’t mention marriage
Just because the man is older and experienced in long term relationships doesn’t mean he won’t be scared off by commitment talk. You can’t do and be everything immediately so remember to take each moment as it comes.
3. Be Fun to be with
It is important to be fun to be around. If you want him to spend time with you, be fun and interesting with him so he will enjoy his time with you.
4. Don’t Take Advice from your Friends
It’s easy and natural to want advice from your friends but resist the temptation. If you are taking advice from friends that haven’t had successful relationships, you will be taking bad advice. It’s best to get advice from someone that participates in a successful relationship and knows how to do it.
5. Be Yourself
You need to be yourself because you never know how a relationship might end up. You can pretend for a date or two, but it may be that this is the forever guy and you can’t pretend forever. Even if he’s not the ‘one’, he could be a close relative or friend of the ‘one’. Stay true to the real you. Don’t be one of those women that continue in a failed relationship, not knowing why it failed or even that they don’t want this.
The most important rule is to be yourself because if you aren’t, you can lose yourself and find it difficult to find your true self again later on. You will be heaping pressure on yourself by wondering if he will like the real you once you reveal it. It’s much better to cut things off with a short term acquaintance then to find that after 2 years, he doesn’t like the real you and you are in love with him.
Don’t forget…
Attracting guys shouldn’t be work so if it feels like work, you are probably with the wrong guy. It’s much easier to get a fresh start if you haven’t traveled too far down the road!